Never Know What to Expect

We never know what to expect from our gal when something new is happening in her world.

We are having both of our bathroom showers and tub replaced. We did the small shower stall in our room first, which is in the back of the house. RJC doesn’t use that bathroom, so though it took a bit of time for her to get used to the comings and goings of those working on the bathroom, it did not directly affect her routines. She was also out of the house for the bulk of the work though there were days that she was home for a few hours while work was going on.

It took about 7 business days to complete the work (give or take) so it was important that she was able to tolerate the noise and the general tumult. She had her headphones on when they were here and that was very helpful. They also always said hi to her and if she said something first, they always acknowledged her. It was a very positive experience.

Today they started in the main bathroom in the hall, which is the bathroom she uses. Last night I took her to our bathroom and showed her the new shower and said, “Now it’s Rachael’s turn for a new bathtub and shower.” At first she said, “No thank you” but we explained it would be pretty and new. Not sure she really understood.

This morning, I reminded her that “her friends" are coming to work on the new bathtub and shower. Luckily when they arrived today, they were the same people who were here for the other shower, and she showed no signs of anxiety. I had moved her personal toiletries to our room and amazingly she was completely cooperative this morning, following me into the small bathroom without an issue.

I admittedly stressed a bit over this last night but our gal rose to the occasion like a champ!

All we can do is prepare her as best we can and then - we hope.

Today was a win!

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